Saturday, August 28, 2010 @12:52 AM
How do u feel when your gestures and efforts were not being appreciated?
As in not asking for a prize or the same amount of efforts in returns but just a simple 'Thank you' or some words of concern back to you will actually let someone feel that he is being appreciated by u. With all this small little actions of appreciation, that person will continue to treat u well because they feel that they are being appreciated. So don't blame others for your poor popularity, its all about yourself. What goes around comes about.
Very often, we'll just fall into the trap of 'taking things for granted' which makes everybody around you felt reluctant to even talk to you. You'll just chase away people that treats you well all along and you'll be losing friends happily everyday. So please do something about it if you're aware of your own problem, otherwise, you'll regret when u realise that you don't have any friends around to help you 1 day.
Trust me, you wouldn't be able to live alone unless you choose to give up the world and life. Your life wouldn't be completed without others.
I've decided to give up somethings that I've worked for because I felt its just getting me no where and its a 1 way traffic. Maybe its on purpose or the opposite side doesn't know how to appreciates. Whichever it is, I'll probably be part of her learning proccess or not. It's always tough to give up something that we've already work halfway through but you should re-work your route if you realise you're walking on a route that doesn't hits your objective. I'll just have to move on to someone that knows what Appreciation is.
~ May God Bless Me ~
As in not asking for a prize or the same amount of efforts in returns but just a simple 'Thank you' or some words of concern back to you will actually let someone feel that he is being appreciated by u. With all this small little actions of appreciation, that person will continue to treat u well because they feel that they are being appreciated. So don't blame others for your poor popularity, its all about yourself. What goes around comes about.
Very often, we'll just fall into the trap of 'taking things for granted' which makes everybody around you felt reluctant to even talk to you. You'll just chase away people that treats you well all along and you'll be losing friends happily everyday. So please do something about it if you're aware of your own problem, otherwise, you'll regret when u realise that you don't have any friends around to help you 1 day.
Trust me, you wouldn't be able to live alone unless you choose to give up the world and life. Your life wouldn't be completed without others.
I've decided to give up somethings that I've worked for because I felt its just getting me no where and its a 1 way traffic. Maybe its on purpose or the opposite side doesn't know how to appreciates. Whichever it is, I'll probably be part of her learning proccess or not. It's always tough to give up something that we've already work halfway through but you should re-work your route if you realise you're walking on a route that doesn't hits your objective. I'll just have to move on to someone that knows what Appreciation is.
~ May God Bless Me ~
Jus Strummed..
Thursday, August 26, 2010 @10:15 PM
ALL THE TIME ?!?!?!?!??? -_-
Jus Strummed..
Monday, August 23, 2010 @9:03 PM
Yoyoyo..
Check out my new dish! The pork fried rice! I've took reference from youtube and I should say it turned out OKay. I would say it doesn't look very nice but it tasted okay for a virgin attempt. Every ingredient in it was well-done and not over or under cooked. I've accidentally added in abit more soy sauce that makes the rice look abit darker, other than that everything was just nice.
I was testing the different modes on my camera as well.
I would rate it a 6.5/10 for myself and I'm quite satisfied with my virgin fried rice. HAHA..
Besides food, I would like to share something motivating today. I was quite sian from the Monday blues atmosphere that I had today. Seriously, I felt so discouraged these days due to work.
I don't know why, my uncle just has this magical power that always brings me up when I talk to him. He gave me a power phrase that impacted me alot.
He told me,"不要停下来,努力做, 你一定会成功的..."
which means, "Do not stop there, continue your hardwork and you WILL succeed."
This sentence is a strong punch for me. After he finishes, my morale went up instantly.
I believe its very important that you have someone there who believes and having faith in you when you're at your lowest point. No matter how bad your state is, this person is always there to support and believe in you.
Do you have such similar experience before? Actually, I ever had such experience before but I was too foolish that I didn't know how to appreciate. Therefore, I deserved the outcome.
Since the fire has been raised again, I'll let it burn as long as it could!
Check out my new dish! The pork fried rice! I've took reference from youtube and I should say it turned out OKay. I would say it doesn't look very nice but it tasted okay for a virgin attempt. Every ingredient in it was well-done and not over or under cooked. I've accidentally added in abit more soy sauce that makes the rice look abit darker, other than that everything was just nice.
I was testing the different modes on my camera as well.
I would rate it a 6.5/10 for myself and I'm quite satisfied with my virgin fried rice. HAHA..
Besides food, I would like to share something motivating today. I was quite sian from the Monday blues atmosphere that I had today. Seriously, I felt so discouraged these days due to work.
I don't know why, my uncle just has this magical power that always brings me up when I talk to him. He gave me a power phrase that impacted me alot.
He told me,"不要停下来,努力做, 你一定会成功的..."
which means, "Do not stop there, continue your hardwork and you WILL succeed."
This sentence is a strong punch for me. After he finishes, my morale went up instantly.
I believe its very important that you have someone there who believes and having faith in you when you're at your lowest point. No matter how bad your state is, this person is always there to support and believe in you.
Do you have such similar experience before? Actually, I ever had such experience before but I was too foolish that I didn't know how to appreciate. Therefore, I deserved the outcome.
Since the fire has been raised again, I'll let it burn as long as it could!
Jus Strummed..
Sunday, August 22, 2010 @11:57 PM
STRESSED & PRESSURED
is the best words to describe me now...
I need something for me to look forward to. There's no brim of light ahead and I'm just heading aimlessly. I don't know what I'm doing everyday.
I need a Hope.
is the best words to describe me now...
I need something for me to look forward to. There's no brim of light ahead and I'm just heading aimlessly. I don't know what I'm doing everyday.
I need a Hope.
Jus Strummed..
@12:31 AM
Let me share an interesting script that was thought by me and Ronald while we're on our way to the MRT station just now.
Don't ask me why. I can only tell u, probably we're too bored... lol
But I did add on abit at the ending part.
Once upon a time...
A guy liked a girl thats already attached. He did alot of things to please that girl but he dunno how the girl feels abt him. He was hoping that the girl will leave her bf bcos of him. So, he decided to confess to her 1 night.
During that night, they had a nice dinner then settled down somewhere for some sea breeze and chit chat.
The guy confessed to the girl, the girl jus didn't said much and seems to have something reserved in her mind.
The guy then continued with, "Actually over these period of time, I've done many things for you, but I was just joking with u and wasn't serious. What I've said just now was jus pulling your leg as well..."
The girl replied, "Actually, I was about to tell u that all along I've been toying and playing around with u as well."
Guy followed with, "I did expect that coming from u but u know what? Your Bf is on my hands now. Whahahaha! I got close to u to let u drift off from your Bf so I can get him and now he's with me! Whhahahaha! So, Stop calling him and keep away from him!"
Girl replied, "What????? Nooo~~~"
Actually, the girl has feelings for that guy and wanted to confess to him as well. She has drifted away from her bf because of guy. But, she's hurt by what the guy told him and trying to hide her sadness with those though replies.
THE END...
Don't ask me why. I can only tell u, probably we're too bored... lol
But I did add on abit at the ending part.
Jus Strummed..
Thursday, August 19, 2010 @11:22 PM
FINALLY, I brought my dear friend Mr Edison NG SEE ZHONG down to our TKD class. I believe he's able to adapt to the environment and hope he'll be able to acheive his Black belt this time round.
By the way, I've received a nice pressie from Ronald just now. The Aspire TKD Tshirt! The main thing is that its a complimentary from Ronald. LOL..
ANyway, Thanks Ronald! =)
Looking forward to my Aspire Wingz tshirt also.. =P
By the way, I've received a nice pressie from Ronald just now. The Aspire TKD Tshirt! The main thing is that its a complimentary from Ronald. LOL..
ANyway, Thanks Ronald! =)
Looking forward to my Aspire Wingz tshirt also.. =P
Jus Strummed..
Wednesday, August 18, 2010 @11:20 PM
Ladies and Gentlemen,
Let me present my first time to you....
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The T-Omelette !
the first omelette that I've ever cooked.
I came back home early today to catch the YOG TKD Finals of the 73kg Men and 63 Kg Ladies. Both matches are fought by the Koreans, so I really chiong back to catch it. They fought very well!
Back to topic, I didn't have my dinner and came back. Here are the options..
1) Order Mac delivery.
2) Cook Maggie =O
I've choosen number 2 because I wanna save money. haha..
But Maggie is real sian so I tried out something new and thats my T-Omelette. I've attempted to do tt in the past but failed a couple of times because I always get the eggs torn while cooking. This is the first time I make it through. Claps~~
I let my grandma tried it and she say its nice. I'm so delighted by her words! =D
It really tasted not bad after I tried myself. I think I was damn lucky today that I dropped in the ingredients Sui Sui today.
It looks kinda ugly after I put the Maggie chilli sauce on it.
Let me present my first time to you....
..
...
....
.....
......
.......
The T-Omelette !
the first omelette that I've ever cooked.
I came back home early today to catch the YOG TKD Finals of the 73kg Men and 63 Kg Ladies. Both matches are fought by the Koreans, so I really chiong back to catch it. They fought very well!
Back to topic, I didn't have my dinner and came back. Here are the options..
1) Order Mac delivery.
2) Cook Maggie =O
I've choosen number 2 because I wanna save money. haha..
But Maggie is real sian so I tried out something new and thats my T-Omelette. I've attempted to do tt in the past but failed a couple of times because I always get the eggs torn while cooking. This is the first time I make it through. Claps~~
I let my grandma tried it and she say its nice. I'm so delighted by her words! =D
It really tasted not bad after I tried myself. I think I was damn lucky today that I dropped in the ingredients Sui Sui today.
It looks kinda ugly after I put the Maggie chilli sauce on it.
Jus Strummed..
Monday, August 16, 2010 @10:00 PM
Where's My Shoulder??
Have been feeling quite down lately. Can't seems to find any motivating factor for me to move on. Dunno why the 'giving up' alarm blinks quite often nowadays. I felt kind of helpless. I really hope there'll be some1 there to lend me a shoulder and be by my side.
I felt Helpless and Useless as a guy nowadays...
Have been feeling quite down lately. Can't seems to find any motivating factor for me to move on. Dunno why the 'giving up' alarm blinks quite often nowadays. I felt kind of helpless. I really hope there'll be some1 there to lend me a shoulder and be by my side.
I felt Helpless and Useless as a guy nowadays...
Jus Strummed..
@1:55 AM
15/08/2010
Roshan!
Let me introduce u to the cutiest boy from my sunday class 'ROSHAN'! hahaha..
Took a random pict of roshan today. He is awesomely cute on that photo! He's gonna be the leader of our indian boys according to Huishan. o.O
Gift from Chuan & Brien~
I was suppose to meet Chuan and Brien for dinner today, but due to delays here and there, the dinner was postponed. We decide to meet for dinner again tomorrow. However, I still meet them for AWHILE and collected my birthday present from them. Thank You Chuan & Brien !
Eh.. I was kind of caught up by some questions in mind. Am I overboard in certain things that I've done. Although it was done with a good intention behind it, I felt that I may be abit overboarding and feeling kind of bad. Should I apologize or just hold on to it and look forward to the bigger picture?
Haiz.. I really dunno what to do. I hope things just don't go wrong.
Roshan!
Let me introduce u to the cutiest boy from my sunday class 'ROSHAN'! hahaha..
Took a random pict of roshan today. He is awesomely cute on that photo! He's gonna be the leader of our indian boys according to Huishan. o.O
Gift from Chuan & Brien~
I was suppose to meet Chuan and Brien for dinner today, but due to delays here and there, the dinner was postponed. We decide to meet for dinner again tomorrow. However, I still meet them for AWHILE and collected my birthday present from them. Thank You Chuan & Brien !
Eh.. I was kind of caught up by some questions in mind. Am I overboard in certain things that I've done. Although it was done with a good intention behind it, I felt that I may be abit overboarding and feeling kind of bad. Should I apologize or just hold on to it and look forward to the bigger picture?
Haiz.. I really dunno what to do. I hope things just don't go wrong.
Jus Strummed..
Wednesday, August 11, 2010 @8:26 PM
I think this blog projected a lot of my emotional feelings because I've been pouring a lot of this into this blog. I think its a good way for myself to have some relief by dropping down things here.
However, this is not gonna be a good thing because it may bring down my mood if I were to look back on these posts in future.
I always have this querry in mind when I look at the gathering photos of my old poly friends. What happened actually that unshaped what we were like before? I'm always kept in mystery. Something may happened that I didn't realise or there may be nothing at all but just normal friendship drifting after sometime.
Once anything gets unshaped, its almost impossible to shape it back. I really have a lot of this happening to my friendships in poly. Its a big SIGH for me..
Will u contact some1 that used to contact u everyday if suddenly that person stop contacting you?
Its a No for me because I've lost some1 like that. I've lost that person because I didn't know how to appreciate people in the past. It'll be a yes now because that person has taught me a lesson on how to appreciate people thats good to me.
However, this is not gonna be a good thing because it may bring down my mood if I were to look back on these posts in future.
I always have this querry in mind when I look at the gathering photos of my old poly friends. What happened actually that unshaped what we were like before? I'm always kept in mystery. Something may happened that I didn't realise or there may be nothing at all but just normal friendship drifting after sometime.
Once anything gets unshaped, its almost impossible to shape it back. I really have a lot of this happening to my friendships in poly. Its a big SIGH for me..
Will u contact some1 that used to contact u everyday if suddenly that person stop contacting you?
Its a No for me because I've lost some1 like that. I've lost that person because I didn't know how to appreciate people in the past. It'll be a yes now because that person has taught me a lesson on how to appreciate people thats good to me.
Jus Strummed..
Monday, August 9, 2010 @6:46 PM
I
SINGAPORE !!!
Happy National Day to All!
What are you doing on this well deserved public holiday? I know some of u is standing by at home for your wife's delivery, some of you is having fun out there, some of you sitting at marina watching the parade and some having a short trip in malaysia.
For me, I'm just rotting at home. I was hoping for a mahjong session today as I'm kind of gian these days. But, didn't manage to find any leg for it. Sadzzz... Hope my ideal mahjong session will happen very soon!! Rahhzz ~
No matter what you guys are doing today, I hope you'll have a happy and enjoyable holiday!! =)
Jus Strummed..
Sunday, August 8, 2010 @6:43 PM
I was quite surprised when i know both your birthday fall on the same day. It was so coincidental. Anyway, I hope the both of you will have an enjoyable birthday and do well in your future endeavours! Advance Happy National day too! =))
Jus Strummed..
Wednesday, August 4, 2010 @11:29 PM
I'M BACK!!
Finally, I'm Reviving My blogg!!! Omg.. the last time I blogged was like 9 months ago? I remember this used to be a place tt i'll think of no matter rain or shines when I've things to voice out and share. This place has been forgotten for the past 9months due to laziness and time constrains.
Time really flies like nobody's biz, I've been in the workforce for near a year. AXA has been a very good company so far as we are really feed well for our hardwork. I've been through the good times and bad times that this career is giving but there's still alot alot alot more that I need to learn.
I've just came back from my company convention trip few months ago. It was my first time visiting Seoul. It was really a great exposure for myself. Got qualified on my first year as a rookie advisor let me have a great sense of achievement. Feeling honoured to be with the top performers in the company. I was promoted to ADM(Associate Development Manager) in 6months and having 1 advisor under me now. I'm fortunate to have my uncle as my mentor, I've learnt alot from him and he has always been there to support and motivate me during bad times.
THANK YOU 小叔!!
Many things and changes happened during the past 9mths. Eversince I left army, I'm getting fatter day by day. In order to get myself active, I went back to Taekwondo after a 6years break. I went back to Buona Vista CC and meet those old pals whom I used to train with. They have been active in TKD all these while, so they have moved up to a higher level. I'm just a rusty and expired blackbelt there.
My leg wasn't as flexible as before. Initially, I was suffering from injuries here and there for overexerting my muscles. I really missed the old days in my youth period when I'm able to move faster and execute sharp kicks. OLD LE~
Because of this, I've linked up with Ronald, an old pal from Synergytkd last time. He's now venturing into Full time TKD coaching and building up his own tkd group (Aspire TKD). I really respect him alot for his passion on TKD. Therefore, I'm helping him on the expansion of his group as well. We've plans and goals on the growth of the group. Hopefully, we can have our own TKD gym in 2012 and thats our goal.
Currently, I'm working real hard to blossom my career. I really need a lot of motivation and determination. Its really not an easy path and I learnt to stay strong in what u believe in. What you believe in is whats gonna happen.
Finally, I'm Reviving My blogg!!! Omg.. the last time I blogged was like 9 months ago? I remember this used to be a place tt i'll think of no matter rain or shines when I've things to voice out and share. This place has been forgotten for the past 9months due to laziness and time constrains.
Time really flies like nobody's biz, I've been in the workforce for near a year. AXA has been a very good company so far as we are really feed well for our hardwork. I've been through the good times and bad times that this career is giving but there's still alot alot alot more that I need to learn.
I've just came back from my company convention trip few months ago. It was my first time visiting Seoul. It was really a great exposure for myself. Got qualified on my first year as a rookie advisor let me have a great sense of achievement. Feeling honoured to be with the top performers in the company. I was promoted to ADM(Associate Development Manager) in 6months and having 1 advisor under me now. I'm fortunate to have my uncle as my mentor, I've learnt alot from him and he has always been there to support and motivate me during bad times.
THANK YOU 小叔!!
Many things and changes happened during the past 9mths. Eversince I left army, I'm getting fatter day by day. In order to get myself active, I went back to Taekwondo after a 6years break. I went back to Buona Vista CC and meet those old pals whom I used to train with. They have been active in TKD all these while, so they have moved up to a higher level. I'm just a rusty and expired blackbelt there.
My leg wasn't as flexible as before. Initially, I was suffering from injuries here and there for overexerting my muscles. I really missed the old days in my youth period when I'm able to move faster and execute sharp kicks. OLD LE~
Because of this, I've linked up with Ronald, an old pal from Synergytkd last time. He's now venturing into Full time TKD coaching and building up his own tkd group (Aspire TKD). I really respect him alot for his passion on TKD. Therefore, I'm helping him on the expansion of his group as well. We've plans and goals on the growth of the group. Hopefully, we can have our own TKD gym in 2012 and thats our goal.
Currently, I'm working real hard to blossom my career. I really need a lot of motivation and determination. Its really not an easy path and I learnt to stay strong in what u believe in. What you believe in is whats gonna happen.
Jus Strummed..
