Saturday, August 28, 2010 @12:52 AM
How do u feel when your gestures and efforts were not being appreciated?
As in not asking for a prize or the same amount of efforts in returns but just a simple 'Thank you' or some words of concern back to you will actually let someone feel that he is being appreciated by u. With all this small little actions of appreciation, that person will continue to treat u well because they feel that they are being appreciated. So don't blame others for your poor popularity, its all about yourself. What goes around comes about.
Very often, we'll just fall into the trap of 'taking things for granted' which makes everybody around you felt reluctant to even talk to you. You'll just chase away people that treats you well all along and you'll be losing friends happily everyday. So please do something about it if you're aware of your own problem, otherwise, you'll regret when u realise that you don't have any friends around to help you 1 day.
Trust me, you wouldn't be able to live alone unless you choose to give up the world and life. Your life wouldn't be completed without others.
I've decided to give up somethings that I've worked for because I felt its just getting me no where and its a 1 way traffic. Maybe its on purpose or the opposite side doesn't know how to appreciates. Whichever it is, I'll probably be part of her learning proccess or not. It's always tough to give up something that we've already work halfway through but you should re-work your route if you realise you're walking on a route that doesn't hits your objective. I'll just have to move on to someone that knows what Appreciation is.
~ May God Bless Me ~
As in not asking for a prize or the same amount of efforts in returns but just a simple 'Thank you' or some words of concern back to you will actually let someone feel that he is being appreciated by u. With all this small little actions of appreciation, that person will continue to treat u well because they feel that they are being appreciated. So don't blame others for your poor popularity, its all about yourself. What goes around comes about.
Very often, we'll just fall into the trap of 'taking things for granted' which makes everybody around you felt reluctant to even talk to you. You'll just chase away people that treats you well all along and you'll be losing friends happily everyday. So please do something about it if you're aware of your own problem, otherwise, you'll regret when u realise that you don't have any friends around to help you 1 day.
Trust me, you wouldn't be able to live alone unless you choose to give up the world and life. Your life wouldn't be completed without others.
I've decided to give up somethings that I've worked for because I felt its just getting me no where and its a 1 way traffic. Maybe its on purpose or the opposite side doesn't know how to appreciates. Whichever it is, I'll probably be part of her learning proccess or not. It's always tough to give up something that we've already work halfway through but you should re-work your route if you realise you're walking on a route that doesn't hits your objective. I'll just have to move on to someone that knows what Appreciation is.
~ May God Bless Me ~
Jus Strummed..
